Menopause doesn’t have to be all about vaginal dryness and painful intercourse. It could be a time that brings a couple together to try something different. With pregnancy concerns behind you, there may be a silver lining to the vaginal dryness a lot of women experience. More foreplay works great and brings more enjoyment to that special time spent together. Some couples enjoy an occasional after dinner drink, such as damiana liqueur which Latin women have found to increase passion and help to get into the mood. Damiana liqueur contains an herb that definitely seems to have an arousing effect.